The Story
The 100 Moms Project was born from a heartfelt conversation between Jill, a Boudoir Photographer and Relationship Coach and Courtney, an Esthetician at Natura Skin Boutique. As they caught up over coffee, they reflected on a shared truth—too many moms pour endlessly into others while neglecting themselves.
As mothers who work in the self love space, Jill and Courtney, know firsthand that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. So many moms put themselves last, whether by default or circumstance, without understanding the compounded weight of responsibility, the power of self-investment and the belonging and community it can bring as a byproduct . A mom who feels supported, cared for, and empowered shows up differently in her life. She cultivates a growth mindset, radiates confidence, and elevates those around her. That realization sparked a bigger vision—to create something tangible for the women of Western New York.
The 100 Moms Project is the first step toward that mission. This initiative will help fund To the Roots, a nonprofit dedicated to providing self-care services and luxury experiences to moms who need them most. Because when moms thrive, families and communities do too. Join us in making self-love accessible to every mom.
Why This Project Matters
When we support the mother's in our community, we aren't just supporting her, but every person that woman touches. Her children, her partner, her friends, and coworkers.
When she is supported everyone in her life feels the impact.
Photography in itself is a time stamp. It gives us the ability to mark a moment that you may look back upon with wonder, excitement, and transformation.
This project to photograph 100 women is to give them that experience of being seen for who they are right now- not who they used to be or who they will become but for all that they are right now!
The mission of this project is twofold, give moms a change to give back to themselves with self care and connection while also support future moms do the same for themselves.
And the bonus we also are support our own woman owned business here in Western New York.
When mothers are supported, they are
more likely to be engaged in their communities, volunteer, and contribute to local economies
(UNICEF)
Moms who prioritize self-care
experience 40% lower rates of anxiety and depression, leading to better overall health (National Institute of Mental Health)
Kids with moms who practice self-care are
more emotionally secure and resilient
because they model self-worth and emotional regulation (Harvard Center on the Developing Child)
Pick Your Date & Location
May 3rd
Saira Studios
Step inside a working artist studio located at the Niagara Food Terminal. Saira will dazzle you up with fairy hair right before you jump in front of our lens.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Saira Studios
Time: 2:00-4:00
Cost: $150
May 4th
Golden Days Studio
Enjoy a 45 minute meditation inside the beautiful Golden Days Space followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Golden Days Studio
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 5th
April Spencer Floral Design
April has arranged a beautiful floral design set for us to create the most unique images. Each photo session will take place every 15 minutes with Jill from Bare By Barrile. Each mom will also receive a small bouquet to take home with them to remember this special occasion.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: April Spencer Floral Design
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 25th
Soul Healing Center
Enjoy a 15 minute Reiki Session with Lana at Soul Healing Center followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the western New York area!
Location: Soul Healing Center
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 26th
Bare By Barrile Studio
15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile right inside her Larkinville studio! Here, you will be able to Bare it all during your portraits session!
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Loaction: 567 Exchnage Street, Buffalo NY 14210
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 31st
the Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Enjoy a 15 minute massage to relax and rejuvenate, followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: The Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Time: 10:00-12:00
Cost: $150
From Nervous to Naked: Overcoming Self-Doubt Before a Boudoir Session
From Nervous to Naked: Overcoming Self-Doubt Before a Boudoir Session
Stepping into a boudoir session isn’t just about photographs—it’s about peeling back layers of self-doubt and meeting yourself in a whole new way.
For many, the thought of booking a session is thrilling… until the doubts creep in. “I don’t look good enough.”“What if I freeze in front of the camera?”“Do I even deserve to feel sexy?” These questions are so common, and yet, every single client who has walked into the Bare By Barrile studio has walked out saying the same thing: “I can’t believe that was me.”
The Jitters Are Normal
It’s important to normalize that self-doubt doesn’t disqualify you from this experience—it’s actually part of it. Almost everyone feels nervous beforehand. You’re stepping into a vulnerable space, confronting insecurities, and trusting someone else to capture you in ways you’ve never seen yourself. That takes courage.
Safety as the First Step
At Bare By Barrile, the nervous energy starts to melt away the moment you walk in. Why? Because safety is intentional. From a trauma-informed, consent-based approach, you are never just “a subject.” (unless your into that) You’re a co-creator. You decide what feels comfortable. You get to say yes, no, or “not right now.” This empowerment is part of what transforms nerves into strength.
Transformation in Real Time
One of the most magical parts of boudoir photography is witnessing the shift. A client might start the session with stiff shoulders, guarded smiles, and quiet uncertainty. Then, as they begin to settle into the experience—with music playing, gentle direction, and affirmations—the body softens. Laughter bubbles up. Eyes start to sparkle. And by the end, what was once “nervousness” becomes radiant confidence.
The Mirror Effect
Boudoir photography holds up a mirror in a way most of us never allow ourselves to see. We’re used to selfies, filters, and avoiding the parts of ourselves we’ve judged for years. But through another’s lens—one that is compassionate, artistic, and nonjudgmental—you see yourself anew. That mirror doesn’t lie. It shows power. It shows softness. It shows beauty you’ve been told to hide.
The Takeaway
Going from nervous to naked isn’t just about shedding clothes—it’s about shedding self-doubt. The session is less about the images (though they’re stunning) and more about the transformation you feel in your body, your posture, your confidence.
Ready to trade your nerves for liberation? Book your boudoir experience with Bare by Barrile and discover how powerful you already are.
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