The Afterglow Retreat
September 18th-20th Cortland, NY
Submerge Yourself in the Golden Light
What Are We doing?
Melt Into The Afterglow
The Afterglow Retreat is an intimate lakeside experience where softness meets fire.
A space to exhale, to slow down, and to come back into your body—while also awakening the parts of you that crave aliveness, pleasure, and expression.
You get to have both.
Through tantric-inspired practices, movement, and intentional connection, you’ll explore your inner world, expand your edges, and allow yourself to be fully witnessed.
You’ll leave with a full heart, open to possibility, and deeply connected to your pleasure, your body, and your truth.
“Everything—from the vibe to the food—made me feel so at ease and taken care of.”
Where Are We Going?!
A private lakeside sanctuary designed for softening, connection, and embodied restoration.
Cortland, NY
Set on a private lakefront just outside Cortland, New York, this intimate retreat is designed as a sanctuary for reconnecting, and coming back to your body.
Spend your days in intentional rhythm—moving between lakeside stillness, firey embodied practices, sauna sessions, and shared meals overlooking the water.
This is where luxury meets intimacy.
Where spaciousness meets sensation.
Where you are held, witnessed, and invited to simply be.
You’ll leave feeling grounded, open, and quietly lit from within.
What's Included?
Everything You Need for a Transformational Weekend
- 2 nights at the Lakeside Cottage in Cortland, NY
- Private boudoir photo session
- Nourishing food to keep you fueled and feeling good!
- Tantric-inspired practices to spark your internal fire
- Guided practices to receiving and manifestation
- Group Photoshoot
- Fireside Ritual
Access to hot tub, sauna, crafting, paddle boards and kayaks, books, tarot + manifestation cards
Time for rest, reflection, and play
What Are We Planning?
This is a Mock Up Itinerary and may vary slightly to the actual weekend.
Retreat includes: lodging, food from Friday night through Sunday morning, your private boudoir photo session, all workshops, and time to rest and restore.
Friday — Arrival & Unwind
4:00–5:00 PM | Arrivals + Settling In
Check in, get settled, and explore the space. Be greeted with yummy treat and a relaxing atmosphere.
Welcome Bits & Drinks
6:00 PM | Opening Circle & Bon Fire
Intention setting, Fire ritual, meet your retreat sister
Saturday — Feeling Alive In Your Body, Where Softness Meets Aliveness
Morning Movement + Breakfast
9:30 AM | Heart Opening and and Grounding Practice for awaking pleasure in the body.
11:30 AM | Embodied Photo Sessions: Each guest will have a private, min photo session capturing her essence and radiance.
In between, enjoy reading, hot tub, kayaking, sauna, or a good nap.
Lunch | Kayla
3:00 PM |Embodied Photo Sessions Continued
Flower crown making + Group Photo shoot together
6:00 PM | Dinner + Fireside Connection
Evening | Tantic Inspired Workshop to tingle the sense, offering play, power dynamics, and intimacy with self.
Sunday — Integration & Goodbye
Slow Morning + Brunch
Fresh coffee, delicious food, and soft music as we reflect on the weekend.
10:00 AM | Closing Circle
Share your insights, take aways, and next steps before heading home grounded, refreshed, and inspired.
11:00 AM | Optional Goddess Day by The Lake (Meditation, 1-1 Coaching sessions, crafting, additional photo time) 5:00 Departure
Meet Us!
Meet Your Host — Jill Barrile
Jill Barrile is an artist, photographer, and embodiment guide dedicated to helping women reconnect with their sensuality, self-trust, and inner power. Through her work with Bare by Barrile, she’s created spaces where women can be seen, celebrated, and deeply expressed — both in front of the camera and within themselves.
With a background in art therapy, intimacy coaching, and transformational photography, Jill blends creativity, mindfulness, and pleasure to help others feel grounded, confident, and fully alive.
The Cozy Cabin Retreat is an extension of her heart — a space to rest, create, and embody the life that feels most like you.
Meet Your co-host and cook — Kayla Black
Kayla is a lifelong food lover with a culinary arts background, experience in cooking competitions, and a passion for hospitality. She grew up cooking alongside her grandpa—learning the kind of intuitive, from-the-heart techniques you won’t find in any recipe book. Today, she brings that same creativity to every dish she makes, blending fresh ingredients into meals that are comforting, flavorful, and made with love.
When she’s not in the kitchen, Kayla works full time at People Inc., part time at a hobby & game store, and fills her world with art, photography, and all things movies and TV. She’s also a cat mom to Minnie and Maui and is beginning to step more fully into event planning and creative experiences.
Kayla and Jill met over seven years ago during a photoshoot that sparked a lifelong friendship. Since then, she’s been part of countless shoots, retreats, and women’s circles—spaces where she’s witnessed (and experienced) the magic of women reconnecting to confidence, empowerment, and joy.
She’s honored to bring her heart, her food, and her grounding presence to this retreat.
Pick Your Room
Only 6 Spots Available
King bed with
1 Person: $1444
Split Between 2 People: $999 Each
Shared Queen bedroom with stylish décor and comfortable bedding
1 Person Per bed: $1111
Split Bed Between 2 People: $888 Each
Shared Queen bedroom with stylish décor and comfortable bedding
1 Person Per bed: $1111
Split Bed Between 2 People: $888 Each
Shared Queen bedroom with stylish décor and comfortable bedding
1 Person Per bed: $1111
Split Bed Between 2 People: $888 Each
Shared Queen bedroom with stylish décor and comfortable bedding
1 Person Per bed: $1111
Split Bed Between 2 People: $888 Each
“I would sign up for another retreat in a heartbeat.”
Frequently Asked Questions
How many spots are available?
We’re keeping this retreat intentionally intimate. There are only 5- 8 spots total, ensuring a cozy, connected, deeply nourishing experience for everyone.
What should I pack?
Pack for comfort, coziness, and creativity. We recommend:
Comfy clothes and loungewear
One outfit you’d love to be photographed in
Warm layers for going outside
A bathing suit
A water bottle
Your favorite grounding items (journal, book, art supplies, crafts, crystals—anything you never have time to sit with)
Any personal snacks you love
This weekend is about sinking in, slowing down, and feeling good.
Do I need experience with boudoir?
Not at all! Most of our clients have never modeled or done a photoshoot before. Jill will guide you every step of the way so you feel supported, beautiful, and empowered.
Are payment plans available?
Yes! You can reserve your spot with a $250 deposit.
The remaining balance is due 30 days before the retreat— August 18th
If you choose to pay in full, you'll receive two complimentary 5x7 prints as a thank-you!
What if I’m shy or nervous for the photoshoot?
Totally okay—most women feel that way at first. Your session doesn’t have to be bold or extreme. It can be soft, relaxed, gentle, or playful. Jill meets you exactly where you are and creates an experience that feels aligned and comfortable for you.
What’s included in the boudoir session?
Your retreat experience includes:
A 30-minute boudoir photoshoot with Jill
Three Polaroids to take home instantly
Five digital downloads of your choice
A viewing party after the retreat to see and select your images
What if I have dietary restrictions?
We’ve got you. You’ll be able to share any dietary needs or preferences after booking, and Kayla will take great care to make sure you’re nourished and included.
Get In Touch
Hours
Mon – Sat 9:00am – 8:00pm
Sunday – CLOSED
Phone
567 Exchange Street
Buffalo
NY, 14210
Studio: 567 Exchange Street , Buffalo NY 14210
Call (716) 961-8939
Email: [email protected]
Site: https://barebybarrile.com
