The Story

The 100 Moms Project was born from a heartfelt conversation between Jill, a Boudoir Photographer and Relationship Coach and Courtney, an Esthetician at Natura Skin Boutique. As they caught up over coffee, they reflected on a shared truth—too many moms pour endlessly into others while neglecting themselves.

As mothers who work in the self love space, Jill and Courtney, know firsthand that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. So many moms put themselves last, whether by default or circumstance, without understanding the compounded weight of responsibility, the power of self-investment and the belonging and community it can bring as a byproduct . A mom who feels supported, cared for, and empowered shows up differently in her life. She cultivates a growth mindset, radiates confidence, and elevates those around her. That realization sparked a bigger vision—to create something tangible for the women of Western New York.

The 100 Moms Project is the first step toward that mission. This initiative will help fund To the Roots, a nonprofit dedicated to providing self-care services and luxury experiences to moms who need them most. Because when moms thrive, families and communities do too. Join us in making self-love accessible to every mom.

Why This Project Matters

When we support the mother's in our community, we aren't just supporting her, but every person that woman touches. Her children, her partner, her friends, and coworkers.

When she is supported everyone in her life feels the impact.

Photography in itself is a time stamp. It gives us the ability to mark a moment that you may look back upon with wonder, excitement, and transformation.

This project to photograph 100 women is to give them that experience of being seen for who they are right now- not who they used to be or who they will become but for all that they are right now!

The mission of this project is twofold, give moms a change to give back to themselves with self care and connection while also support future moms do the same for themselves.

And the bonus we also are support our own woman owned business here in Western New York.

When mothers are supported, they are
more likely to be engaged in their communities, volunteer, and contribute to local economies
(UNICEF)

Moms who prioritize self-care
experience 40% lower rates of anxiety and depression, leading to better overall health (National Institute of Mental Health)

Kids with moms who practice self-care are
more emotionally secure and resilient
because they model self-worth and emotional regulation (Harvard Center on the Developing Child)

Pick Your Date & Location

May 3rd

Saira Studios

Step inside a working artist studio located at the Niagara Food Terminal. Saira will dazzle you up with fairy hair right before you jump in front of our lens.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Location: Saira Studios

Time: 2:00-4:00

Cost: $150

May 4th

Golden Days Studio

Enjoy a 45 minute meditation inside the beautiful Golden Days Space followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Location: Golden Days Studio

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 5th

April Spencer Floral Design

April has arranged a beautiful floral design set for us to create the most unique images. Each photo session will take place every 15 minutes with Jill from Bare By Barrile. Each mom will also receive a small bouquet to take home with them to remember this special occasion.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Address: April Spencer Floral Design

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 25th

Soul Healing Center

Enjoy a 15 minute Reiki Session with Lana at Soul Healing Center followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the western New York area!

Location: Soul Healing Center

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 26th

Bare By Barrile Studio

15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile right inside her Larkinville studio! Here, you will be able to Bare it all during your portraits session!

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Loaction: 567 Exchnage Street, Buffalo NY 14210

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 31st

the Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa

Enjoy a 15 minute massage to relax and rejuvenate, followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Address: The Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa

Time: 10:00-12:00

Cost: $150

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Behind the Lens: A Photographer’s Intimate Reflections

November 03, 20252 min read

Behind the Lens: A Photographer’s Intimate Reflections

Every boudoir session tells a story. But what you may not realize is that as much as the client is transformed, so is the photographer. As the one behind the lens, I (Jill) witness moments of vulnerability, courage, and radiance that stay with me long after the shutter clicks.

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What I See When You Walk In

Most clients enter the studio with a mix of nerves and excitement. I see the way hands fidget, the way eyes search for reassurance. But beneath the surface, I see something else: bravery. It takes incredible courage to show up and say, I’m ready to be seen.

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The Shift That Happens

There’s a moment in every session where something changes. Shoulders drop. A laugh escapes. The client stops thinking about “posing right” and starts feeling. That moment is magic. It’s when the camera becomes invisible, and authenticity takes over.

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What I Learn From You

Each client teaches me something new about resilience, beauty, and humanity. I’ve seen people reclaim their bodies after trauma, embrace sensuality after years of shame, or celebrate milestones like turning 40, 50, or 60 with pride. Every story deepens my understanding of what it means to live embodied.

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Photography as Witnessing

Boudoir is not about “capturing sexy pictures.” It’s about witnessing the full spectrum of a person—their softness, their edge, their playfulness, their stillness. As the photographer, I hold that mirror up and say: Look. This is you. This is real. And it’s breathtaking.

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The Gift I Carry Home

When I edit your photos, I don’t just see images—I see transformation. I remember the laughter, the breakthroughs, the tears. And I feel gratitude, every single time, for being trusted with something so intimate.

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Behind the lens, I am not just a photographer. I am a witness. A mirror. A co-creator. And that is the greatest honor of my work.

Want to experience this transformation yourself? Book a Bare by Barrile session and let’s create images—and memories—that will stay with you for life.


boudoir, coaching, photography, intimacy

boudoir, coaching, photography, intimacy

boudoir, coaching, photography, intimacy

boudoir, coaching, photography, intimacy

boudoir, coaching, photography, intimacy


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Jill Barrile

Buffalo Ny based photographer and intimacy coach

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