Intimacy coaching at Bare by Barrile is a transformational journey - not just about sex or relationships, but about you.
Your DESIRES.
Your BODY.
Your VOICE.
Your ABILITY to show up with presence and vulnerability in your life and relationships.
This work is gentle but powerful, designed for individuals or couples ready to explore deeper emotional and physical connection,
heal old patterns, and experience intimacy as a form of self-ownership.
You might be here because you're ready to:
Deepen intimacy with a partner
Feel more comfortable and confident in your sexuality
Heal from past relational or sexual trauma
Practice dating or explore conscious relationships
Communicate with more clarity, honesty, and compassion
Feel more at home in your body and your desires
I am a certified intimacy coach trained in the Somatica Method - a somatic, experimental approach to sex and relationship coaching that goes beyond talk therapy. We don't just talk about connection, we practice it.
This means:
Real-time tools and embodied exercises
Safe, consent-based space for vulnerability and growth
An integration of your mind, emotions, and body
Support for trauma-informed healing and empowerment
This is not a clinical or academic approach. This is personal. Present. Bold. And deeply human.
I offer 3-, 6-, or 12-month coaching containers where we will work 1:1 to discover your core desires.
During each 90-minute session, you’ll be gently guided to deepening into intimacy and relationships while harnessing your true desires, learning to communicate differently, and breaking old patterns.
Everyone begins from a different place—and I’m here to meet you exactly where you are.
Curious if this is the right fit for you? Let’s connect. Book a discovery call to get started.
Combine our Intimacy Coaching practice with a Luxury Photo Session for this ultimate transformation!
Wanting to feel more confident?
Connected to your body?
Having better sex?
Saying yes to your dreams without questioning yourself?
This is your path to pleasure, desire, and possibility with the photographic evidence to prove it!
By pair our coaching with creative expression we are able to offer our clients a new way of looking at themselves from the inside out!
What Clients Say
I want you to have the juiciest, most exhilarating, deep and true relationship - with you!
Can you imagine what life would be like if you just had the right tools to have a relationship that feels exciting, pleasurable, and connected?
What if every relationship could be as exhilarating as your deepest desires?
With the right tools and guidance, you can cultivate connections that are not only exciting but deeply satisfying.
Our somatic coaching sessions lead you through a pleasure based experience where you will embody the skills to foster pleasure, intimacy, and genuine connections not just with partners but with you too!
Instead of just fantasizing about a fulfilling relationship— let's create one.
What is the Somatica Method?
The Somatica Method is a blend of talk and experiential practices that emphasize vulnerability, empathy, self awareness, embodiment, and sensuality.
Through this method we are able to expand our beliefs, practice the skills required for deeper connections, and discover our own personal roadmap to intimacy. We do this through real-time practice that open us up to getting more in touch with our bodies, discover our core desires, and expand our communication.
This in itself allows us to have more pleasure filled relationships that are accepting, erotic, connected, and joyful!
Our goal is to create safety, acceptance, and trust, so we are able to show up more confidently as our most authentic selves.
Ready to Begin?
This is your invitation to step into a deeper relationship with yourself and those you love.
How Does It work?
We offer 3, 6, or 12 month Coaching Containers where you will work 1-1 with Jill.
Each month will include:
(3) 90 minute session via zoom or in person
Sun-Thursday support through Telegram
Access to our online community, the Whisper Lounge
When you booked your discover call, we can discuss which container might work best for you!
Become a VIP Client and enhance this ever powerful transformation with a luxury photoshoot!
This is not a therapy - but is is therapeutic. Many clients find this word is the missing piece they didn't know they needed.
Free Resources to Support Your Journey
You deserve tools that nourish your growth — no strings attached.
Explore these free offerings created with love to help you reconnect with your body,
deepen your self-awareness, and feel more at home in your truth.
Breaking Down Walls Podcast
Raw and real conversations about intimacy, self-discovery, and the power of vulnerability.
Self-Love Workshop
A gentle, guided space to come home to yourself — through reflection, embodiment, and radical compassion.
FAQs
Before you ask, “What is this exactly?”—just know this:
Intimacy coaching, especially through this unique method, gives you practical tools and embodied practices to design and create the future you actually want.
You’ll take these juicy, life-shifting tools into your everyday life—learning how to navigate relationships, deepen intimacy, and expand your self-awareness.
Simply put: you’ll start to feel lit up, magnetic, and irresistible to the life, people, and opportunities that your heart craves.
So… why work with a sex + intimacy coach?
Because our sessions are a space to get curious, pull things apart, get a little messy, and awaken your sensual energy. By hiring a coach, you’re saying YES to more intimacy, more pleasure, and more desire.
These calls are more than conversations—they’re a safe space to express yourself fully and a playground to experiment with the skills it takes to be an exceptional, connected partner (to yourself and others).
You can bring a specific goal, a big question, or simply whatever’s alive in you right now. If you're feeling the nudge—if your body says "yes"—book a discovery call and let’s explore what’s possible together.
Whether you want to elevate your dating life, deepen a relationship, reignite your intimacy, build confidence, source your erotic energy, or create the most fulfilling relationship of your life… we begin right here.
Want to build an Intimate Relationship with yourself RIGHT NOW?
UNSHAKABLE is my signature methodology to creating an intimate, strong, unshakable relationship with yourself.
Through this 2 day immersion, you will gain access to 2.2 hours of my in real time experiential practices that you can start implementing in your life right away!
Ways To Work With Me
1-1 Calls
80 Minute Coaching Call available on Zoom or in person, by request.
Support
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Coming July 2024
Coaching + Photos
Combine the power of intiamcy coaching with a transformational photo experince.
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This is a place for kick ass females that are looking for a safe place to talk and share about all things boudoir.
So come between the sheets with us and
lets swap stories, encourage growth, and love on our bodies
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