Come Home to Your Body. Connect More Deeply.

Love More Freely.

Intimacy coaching at Bare by Barrile is a transformational journey - not just about sex or relationships, but about you.

Your DESIRES.

Your BODY.

Your VOICE.

Your ABILITY to show up with presence and vulnerability in your life and relationships.

This work is gentle but powerful, designed for individuals or couples ready to explore deeper emotional and physical connection,

heal old patterns, and experience intimacy as a form of self-ownership.

Who is this for?

You might be here because you're ready to:

Deepen intimacy with a partner

Feel more comfortable and confident in your sexuality

Heal from past relational or sexual trauma

Practice dating or explore conscious relationships

Communicate with more clarity, honesty, and compassion

Feel more at home in your body and your desires

Check out a live Demo.

What Makes This Work Different

my coaching approach is based in the Somatica Method - a somatic, experimental approach to sex and relationship coaching that goes beyond talk therapy. We don't just talk about connection, we practice it.

This means:

Real-time tools and embodied exercises

Safe, consent-based space for vulnerability and growth

An integration of your mind, emotions, and body

Support for trauma-informed healing and empowerment

This is not a clinical or academic approach. This is personal, present, bold, And deeply human.

Ways To Work Together

1-1 Coaching

I offer 3-, 6-, and 12-month 1:1 coaching containers designed to support you in reconnecting with your core desires and building a deeper, more intimate relationship with yourself and others.

In our 90-minute private sessions, you’ll be gently guided into practices and conversations that expand intimacy, strengthen communication, and help you unwind old patterns that no longer serve you. Together, we’ll explore what truly turns you on to life—emotionally, relationally, and somatically—so you can move from obligation into authentic desire.

There is no “right” place to begin. You’re not behind, broken, or too much. I meet you exactly where you are, with curiosity, safety, and compassion.

Curious if this is the right fit for you?
Let’s connect. Book a discovery call to explore what support would feel most nourishing for you.

Discovery Call

VIP Coaching+ Luxury Photography

Our most immersive transformation—where intimacy coaching meets luxury photography to help you step fully into confidence, desire, and self-trust

This experience is for you if you’re craving:

- Deeper confidence that comes from within
- A more connected, alive relationship with your body
- More fulfilling intimacy and pleasure

- The courage to say yes to your dreams without second-guessing yourself

By pairing intimacy coaching with creative expression, we guide you through an inside-out transformation—one that reshapes how you feel in your body and how you see yourself.

The result? A profound shift in self-connection, expanded desire and possibility, and photographic evidence that reflects the person you’ve become.

This isn’t just a session.
It’s a reclamation

Discovery Call

What Clients Say

MORE TESTIMONIALS

I want you to have the juiciest, most exhilarating, deep and true relationship - with you!

Can you imagine what life would be like if you just had the right tools to have a relationship that feels exciting, pleasurable, and connected?

What if every relationship could be as exhilarating as your deepest desires?

With the right tools and guidance, you can cultivate connections that are not only exciting but deeply satisfying.

Our somatic coaching sessions lead you through a pleasure based experience where you will embody the skills to foster pleasure, intimacy, and genuine connections not just with partners but with you too!

Instead of just fantasizing about a fulfilling relationship— let's create one.

What is the Somatica Method?

The Somatica Method is a blend of talk and experiential practices that emphasize vulnerability, empathy, self awareness, embodiment, and sensuality.

Through this method we are able to expand our beliefs, practice the skills required for deeper connections, and discover our own personal roadmap to intimacy. We do this through real-time practice that open us up to getting more in touch with our bodies, discover our core desires, and expand our communication.

This in itself allows us to have more pleasure filled relationships that are accepting, erotic, connected, and joyful!

Our goal is to create safety, acceptance, and trust, so we are able to show up more confidently as our most authentic selves.

How Does It work?

We offer 3, 6, or 12 month Coaching Containers where you will work 1-1 with Jill.

Each month will include:

(3) 90 minute session via zoom or in person
Optional support through Telegram

When you booked your discover call, we can discuss which container might work best for you!

Become a VIP Client and enhance this ever powerful transformation with a luxury photoshoot!

Breaking Down Walls Podcast

Raw and real conversations about intimacy, self-discovery, and the power of vulnerability.

Listen Here

FAQs

Before you ask, “What is this exactly?”—just know this:

Intimacy coaching, especially through this unique method, gives you practical tools and embodied practices to design and create the future you actually want.

You’ll take these juicy, life-shifting tools into your everyday life—learning how to navigate relationships, deepen intimacy, and expand your self-awareness.

Simply put: you’ll start to feel lit up, magnetic, and irresistible to the life, people, and opportunities that your heart craves.

So… why work with a sex + intimacy coach?

Because our sessions are a space to get curious, pull things apart, get a little messy, and awaken your sensual energy. By hiring a coach, you’re saying YES to more intimacy, more pleasure, and more desire.

These calls are more than conversations—they’re a safe space to express yourself fully and a playground to experiment with the skills it takes to be an exceptional, connected partner (to yourself and others).

You can bring a specific goal, a big question, or simply what is alive for you right now. If you're feeling the nudge—if your body says "yes"—book a discovery call and let’s explore what’s possible together.

Whether you want to elevate your dating life, deepen a relationship, reignite your intimacy, build confidence, source your erotic energy, or create the most fulfilling relationship of your life… we begin right here.