Get out of your head and into your body.
This is a pleasure based coaching practice that uses the Somatica approach to intimacy and relationships.
1-1 Coaching
I offer 3-, 6-, or 12-month coaching containers where we will work 1:1 to discover your core desires. In each 90-minute session, you’ll be gently guided to deepen into intimacy and relationships while harnessing your true desires.
Everyone begins from a different place—and I’m here to meet you exactly where you are.
Curious if this is the right fit for you? Let’s connect. Book a discovery call to get started.
1-1 VIP Coaching
Combine our Intimacy Coaching practice with a Luxury Boudoir Session for this ultimate transformation!
I want you to have the juiciest, most exhilarating, deep and true relationship - with you!
With the right tools and guidance, you can cultivate connections that are not only exciting but deeply satisfying.
Our somatic coaching sessions lead you through a pleasure based experience where you will embody the skills to foster pleasure, intimacy, and genuine connections not just with partners but with you too!
Instead of just fantasizing about a fulfilling relationship— let's create one.
What is the Somatica Method?
The Somatica Method is a blend of talk and experiential practices that emphasize vulnerability, empathy, self awareness, embodiment, and sensuality.
Through this method we are able to expand our beliefs, practice the skills required for deeper connections, and discover our own personal roadmap to intimacy. We do this through real-time practice that open us up to getting more in touch with our bodies, discover our core desires, and expand our communication.
This in itself allows us to have more pleasure filled relationships that are accepting, erotic, connected, and joyful!
Our goal is to create safety, acceptance, and trust, so we are able to show up more confidently as our most authentic selves.
How Does It work?
We offer 3, 6, or 12 month Coaching Containers where you will work 1-1 with Jill.
Each month will include:
(3) 90 minute session via zoom or in person
Sun-Thursday support through Telegram
Access to our online community, the Whisper Lounge
When you booked your discover call, we can discuss which container might work best for you!
Become a VIP Client and enhance this ever powerful transformation with a luxury photoshoot!
Are you desiring to feel joyful, sensual, and free without giving up your needs, desires, and boundaries?
Learning how to be in relationship with yourself as well as current and future partners can shift your life from mundane and constrained to feeling completely accepted, free, and erotically embodied.
Over the last 8 years, I have worked in the field of boudoir + intimacy as a photographer.
I have witnessed many women disrobe in the hopes of building a
connection between their everyday selves and their erotic selfs. In real time, I got to see my clients come alive, feel powerful, and get completely blissed out during their photo sessions. I not only gave them a safe place to be themselves but to also be creative and find their growing edges.
I started to notice that the clients coming to me were looking for an experience that was beyond just the physical “sexy photos.” Many were using these photo sessions as a place of
celebration as they walked alongside real life events like entering chemo, ending a turbulent relationship, celebrating a wedding, bringing a new life into the world, and building a better relationship with their own bodies.
As I became more deeply entrenched in this work I felt this desire to do more for my clients. I wanted to not only empower them through my art but also to be a bridge for them to learn the tools necessary for creating a more embodied, erotic life.
When I found Somatica, I knew this was the path to take. I wanted to be able to give my clients a deeper experience that aligned with their needs, desires, and growth. I also wanted to help those that were not there yet and support them on their quest for liberation.
I am fully trained in the Somatica Method of sex and relationship coaching, art therapy, photography, and
also versed in trauma informed care and tantra.
I find myself most curious to work with both singles and couples who are looking to get more pleasure out of life and have the desire to build mutually fulfilling relationships.
Want to know what it really FEELS like to work with Jill
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Frequently Asked Questions
Before you ask, “What is this exactly?”—just know this:
Intimacy coaching, especially through this unique method, gives you practical tools and embodied practices to design and create the future you actually want.
You’ll take these juicy, life-shifting tools into your everyday life—learning how to navigate relationships, deepen intimacy, and expand your self-awareness.
Simply put: you’ll start to feel lit up, magnetic, and irresistible to the life, people, and opportunities that your heart craves.
So… why work with a sex + intimacy coach?
Because our sessions are a space to get curious, pull things apart, get a little messy, and awaken your sensual energy. By hiring a coach, you’re saying YES to more intimacy, more pleasure, and more desire.
These calls are more than conversations—they’re a safe space to express yourself fully and a playground to experiment with the skills it takes to be an exceptional, connected partner (to yourself and others).
You can bring a specific goal, a big question, or simply whatever’s alive in you right now. If you're feeling the nudge—if your body says "yes"—book a discovery call and let’s explore what’s possible together.
Whether you want to elevate your dating life, deepen a relationship, reignite your intimacy, build confidence, source your erotic energy, or create the most fulfilling relationship of your life… we begin right here.
Want to build an Intimacy Relationship with yourself RIGHT NOW?
UNSHAKBALE is my signature methodology to creating an intimate, strong, unshakable relationship without ourselves.
Through this 2 day immersion, you will gain access to 2.2 hours of my experience based practices that you can start implementing in your life right away
Join Our Telegram Community: The Whisper Lounge
Jump into our Telegram community, The Whisper Lounge to experience Monthly coaching calls, weekly intimacy inspiation, and daily jib jab.
This space is FREE when you become a coaching client or Infinity Club Member!
Coming April 2025
Ways To Work With Me
1-1 Calls
80 Minute Coaching Call available on Zoom or in person, by request.
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Coming July 2024
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So come between the sheets with us and lets swap stories, encourage growth, and love on our bodies
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