The Story
The 100 Moms Project was born from a heartfelt conversation between Jill, a Boudoir Photographer and Relationship Coach and Courtney, an Esthetician at Natura Skin Boutique. As they caught up over coffee, they reflected on a shared truth—too many moms pour endlessly into others while neglecting themselves.
As mothers who work in the self love space, Jill and Courtney, know firsthand that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. So many moms put themselves last, whether by default or circumstance, without understanding the compounded weight of responsibility, the power of self-investment and the belonging and community it can bring as a byproduct . A mom who feels supported, cared for, and empowered shows up differently in her life. She cultivates a growth mindset, radiates confidence, and elevates those around her. That realization sparked a bigger vision—to create something tangible for the women of Western New York.
The 100 Moms Project is the first step toward that mission. This initiative will help fund To the Roots, a nonprofit dedicated to providing self-care services and luxury experiences to moms who need them most. Because when moms thrive, families and communities do too. Join us in making self-love accessible to every mom.
Why This Project Matters
When we support the mother's in our community, we aren't just supporting her, but every person that woman touches. Her children, her partner, her friends, and coworkers.
When she is supported everyone in her life feels the impact.
Photography in itself is a time stamp. It gives us the ability to mark a moment that you may look back upon with wonder, excitement, and transformation.
This project to photograph 100 women is to give them that experience of being seen for who they are right now- not who they used to be or who they will become but for all that they are right now!
The mission of this project is twofold, give moms a change to give back to themselves with self care and connection while also support future moms do the same for themselves.
And the bonus we also are support our own woman owned business here in Western New York.
When mothers are supported, they are
more likely to be engaged in their communities, volunteer, and contribute to local economies
(UNICEF)
Moms who prioritize self-care
experience 40% lower rates of anxiety and depression, leading to better overall health (National Institute of Mental Health)
Kids with moms who practice self-care are
more emotionally secure and resilient
because they model self-worth and emotional regulation (Harvard Center on the Developing Child)
Pick Your Date & Location
May 3rd
Saira Studios
Step inside a working artist studio located at the Niagara Food Terminal. Saira will dazzle you up with fairy hair right before you jump in front of our lens.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Saira Studios
Time: 2:00-4:00
Cost: $150
May 4th
Golden Days Studio
Enjoy a 45 minute meditation inside the beautiful Golden Days Space followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Golden Days Studio
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 5th
April Spencer Floral Design
April has arranged a beautiful floral design set for us to create the most unique images. Each photo session will take place every 15 minutes with Jill from Bare By Barrile. Each mom will also receive a small bouquet to take home with them to remember this special occasion.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: April Spencer Floral Design
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 25th
Soul Healing Center
Enjoy a 15 minute Reiki Session with Lana at Soul Healing Center followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the western New York area!
Location: Soul Healing Center
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 26th
Bare By Barrile Studio
15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile right inside her Larkinville studio! Here, you will be able to Bare it all during your portraits session!
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Loaction: 567 Exchnage Street, Buffalo NY 14210
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 31st
the Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Enjoy a 15 minute massage to relax and rejuvenate, followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: The Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Time: 10:00-12:00
Cost: $150
Intentional Dating
Dating today can feel confusing.
Apps move fast. Conversations stay surface-level. People often meet without really knowing what they want — or without sharing it honestly.
Intentional dating is a different approach.
Instead of hoping the right relationship happens by chance, intentional dating is about showing up with clarity, honesty, and self-awareness. It’s not about putting pressure on every connection. It’s about being aligned with the kind of relationship you truly want.
And when you date this way, the experience becomes more meaningful, less exhausting, and far more connected.
What Is Intentional Dating?
Intentional dating means dating with awareness and purpose.
It involves:
Knowing your values
Being honest about what you want
Choosing connection over distraction
Prioritizing emotional safety and compatibility
This doesn’t mean every date needs to be serious. It simply means you’re not dating on autopilot.
You’re present.
Curious.
And open to real connection.
People who practice intentional dating often find they attract partners who are more emotionally available and aligned with their lifestyle.
Why Many People Struggle With Dating Right Now
Many relationships struggle before they even begin because people are unclear about:
Their relationship goals
Emotional needs
Boundaries
Communication styles
Relationship expectations
Without clarity, dating can turn into guessing games or mixed signals.
Intentional dating helps shift the experience from confusion to connection.
Instead of asking:
"Do they like me?"
You begin asking:
"Are we actually compatible?"
That shift alone can change everything about a connection
The First Step: Get Clear on What You Want
Before you can build a healthy relationship, you need to understand yourself first.
Some helpful questions to explore:
What kind of relationship do I want to create?
How do I want to feel with a partner?
What values are important to me?
What does emotional safety look like for me?
What am I no longer willing to accept?
This kind of clarity makes dating feel calmer and more grounded.
You stop chasing validation and start looking for alignment.
Intentional Dating Is About Honesty (Not Perfection)
One of the most attractive qualities in dating is authenticity.
Intentional dating invites you to:
Be honest about where you are in life
Communicate openly
Move at a pace that feels right
Respect your boundaries and your partner’s
You don’t have to overshare or rush intimacy.
Instead, you create space for connection to unfold naturally — while still staying aligned with your needs.
Questions That Create Real Connection on Dates
Intentional dating often includes deeper conversations earlier on — not in a heavy way, but in a curious, open way.
Here are a few questions that can help people connect more meaningfully:
What does a healthy relationship look like to you?
What makes you feel most appreciated?
What are you currently growing through in life?
What helps you feel emotionally safe with someone?
What are you looking for right now in dating?
These types of conversations help people understand each other beyond surface attraction.
And that’s where real compatibility begins to show.
Intentional Dating Builds Stronger Relationships
When people date with intention, several things tend to happen:
Communication improves.
Boundaries become clearer.
Trust builds faster.
Emotional intimacy grows more naturally.
Intentional dating doesn’t guarantee a relationship will work out — but it greatly increases the chances that the connections you build are healthy and fulfilling.
And just as importantly, it helps you avoid relationships that aren’t aligned.
A Different Way to Approach Dating
Instead of thinking of dating as something stressful or uncertain, intentional dating invites you to see it as a process of discovery.
You’re learning about another person.
But you’re also learning about yourself.
Every conversation, every connection, every experience helps you better understand the kind of relationship you truly want to create.
And that awareness is incredibly powerful.
If You Want Deeper Connection in Your Dating Life
Sometimes people know they want something different in relationships — they just aren’t sure how to create it.
This is where support, reflection, and intentional practices can make a big difference.
If you're exploring dating, relationships, or intimacy more deeply, relationship and intimacy coaching can help you build confidence, clarity, and healthier connections moving forward.
Because the most fulfilling relationships don’t happen by accident.
They’re built with intention.
You can book an intimacy session with me today to start the process of dating with intention
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