The Story
The 100 Moms Project was born from a heartfelt conversation between Jill, a Boudoir Photographer and Relationship Coach and Courtney, an Esthetician at Natura Skin Boutique. As they caught up over coffee, they reflected on a shared truth—too many moms pour endlessly into others while neglecting themselves.
As mothers who work in the self love space, Jill and Courtney, know firsthand that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. So many moms put themselves last, whether by default or circumstance, without understanding the compounded weight of responsibility, the power of self-investment and the belonging and community it can bring as a byproduct . A mom who feels supported, cared for, and empowered shows up differently in her life. She cultivates a growth mindset, radiates confidence, and elevates those around her. That realization sparked a bigger vision—to create something tangible for the women of Western New York.
The 100 Moms Project is the first step toward that mission. This initiative will help fund To the Roots, a nonprofit dedicated to providing self-care services and luxury experiences to moms who need them most. Because when moms thrive, families and communities do too. Join us in making self-love accessible to every mom.
Why This Project Matters
When we support the mother's in our community, we aren't just supporting her, but every person that woman touches. Her children, her partner, her friends, and coworkers.
When she is supported everyone in her life feels the impact.
Photography in itself is a time stamp. It gives us the ability to mark a moment that you may look back upon with wonder, excitement, and transformation.
This project to photograph 100 women is to give them that experience of being seen for who they are right now- not who they used to be or who they will become but for all that they are right now!
The mission of this project is twofold, give moms a change to give back to themselves with self care and connection while also support future moms do the same for themselves.
And the bonus we also are support our own woman owned business here in Western New York.
When mothers are supported, they are
more likely to be engaged in their communities, volunteer, and contribute to local economies
(UNICEF)
Moms who prioritize self-care
experience 40% lower rates of anxiety and depression, leading to better overall health (National Institute of Mental Health)
Kids with moms who practice self-care are
more emotionally secure and resilient
because they model self-worth and emotional regulation (Harvard Center on the Developing Child)
Pick Your Date & Location
May 3rd
Saira Studios
Step inside a working artist studio located at the Niagara Food Terminal. Saira will dazzle you up with fairy hair right before you jump in front of our lens.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Saira Studios
Time: 2:00-4:00
Cost: $150
May 4th
Golden Days Studio
Enjoy a 45 minute meditation inside the beautiful Golden Days Space followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Golden Days Studio
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 5th
April Spencer Floral Design
April has arranged a beautiful floral design set for us to create the most unique images. Each photo session will take place every 15 minutes with Jill from Bare By Barrile. Each mom will also receive a small bouquet to take home with them to remember this special occasion.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: April Spencer Floral Design
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 25th
Soul Healing Center
Enjoy a 15 minute Reiki Session with Lana at Soul Healing Center followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the western New York area!
Location: Soul Healing Center
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 26th
Bare By Barrile Studio
15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile right inside her Larkinville studio! Here, you will be able to Bare it all during your portraits session!
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Loaction: 567 Exchnage Street, Buffalo NY 14210
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 31st
the Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Enjoy a 15 minute massage to relax and rejuvenate, followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: The Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Time: 10:00-12:00
Cost: $150
How to Feel Sexy at Any Age, Shape, or Size
A Bare by Barrile Guide to Reclaiming Your Sensual Energy
We live in a culture that tells women that “sexy” has an expiration date — that it belongs to a certain age, size, or body type. But at Bare by Barrile, we know the truth:
Sexy isn’t a look. It’s an energy.
It’s how you move, how you breathe, how you allow yourself to be fully present in your skin.
Every woman has sensuality woven into her being — but most of us were taught to hide it, apologize for it, or wait until we’ve “earned” it. This blog is your permission slip to stop waiting.
Sexy Is a State of Presence
When you see someone who radiates confidence, it’s rarely because of their physical form — it’s because they’ve come home to themselves.
They’re not performing; they’re present. They’ve stopped watching themselves from the outside and started feeling from the inside.
Try this:
Take a slow breath right now. Let your shoulders drop. Feel your belly expand. Notice the way your body supports you, even in stillness.
That aliveness you feel? That’s your sensuality waking up.
Movement: The Gateway to Sensual Confidence
Sensuality isn’t about being seductive — it’s about being connected.
When you move your body in ways that feel delicious, you activate the natural energy of pleasure that’s always been within you.
You don’t have to dance like anyone else. Just move like you.
Roll your shoulders back and breathe deeply.
Sway your hips while brushing your teeth.
Stretch when you wake up, letting sound escape your lips.
Your body responds to being noticed. The more you inhabit her, the more confident you become.
Pleasure Is Not a Reward — It’s a Birthright
Many women delay pleasure until they “deserve” it — after they lose weight, finish a project, or feel less stressed. But that mindset disconnects us from our natural rhythm.
Pleasure doesn’t have to be earned. It’s medicine. It’s what brings your nervous system into balance and your soul back to joy.
Start small:
✨ Sip your morning coffee slowly.
✨ Feel the sun on your skin.
✨ Choose clothes that feel good, not just look good.
When you treat pleasure as sacred, your energy becomes magnetic. That’s what “sexy” really is — not performance, but permission.
The Camera Never Lies — It Reflects
During boudoir sessions at Bare by Barrile, I see this truth play out every time.
The women who walk in thinking they need to “perform sexy” often look stiff or hesitant at first. But when they start to laugh, breathe, and let go — their light floods the room.
It’s not their body that changes. It’s their energy.
Feeling sexy at any age, shape, or size isn’t about changing your reflection — it’s about allowing your reflection to change you.
Sexy is not a size — it’s a state of presence.
Sensual confidence grows when you let your body feel, not when you try to control it.
Pleasure is your natural language — the more you honor it, the more alive you feel.
You don’t “become” sexy. You remember that you already are.
Step Into Your Own Version of Sexy
At Bare by Barrile, every boudoir and self-love session is a celebration of your essence — not your perfection.
Whether you’re rediscovering your sensual side, healing your relationship with your body, or simply wanting to see yourself through a loving lens, our space was created for you.
📸 Book your Bare by Barrile experience today — and let’s capture the version of you that’s always been there: radiant, worthy, and wildly alive.
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