The Story

The 100 Moms Project was born from a heartfelt conversation between Jill, a Boudoir Photographer and Relationship Coach and Courtney, an Esthetician at Natura Skin Boutique. As they caught up over coffee, they reflected on a shared truth—too many moms pour endlessly into others while neglecting themselves.

As mothers who work in the self love space, Jill and Courtney, know firsthand that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. So many moms put themselves last, whether by default or circumstance, without understanding the compounded weight of responsibility, the power of self-investment and the belonging and community it can bring as a byproduct . A mom who feels supported, cared for, and empowered shows up differently in her life. She cultivates a growth mindset, radiates confidence, and elevates those around her. That realization sparked a bigger vision—to create something tangible for the women of Western New York.

The 100 Moms Project is the first step toward that mission. This initiative will help fund To the Roots, a nonprofit dedicated to providing self-care services and luxury experiences to moms who need them most. Because when moms thrive, families and communities do too. Join us in making self-love accessible to every mom.

Why This Project Matters

When we support the mother's in our community, we aren't just supporting her, but every person that woman touches. Her children, her partner, her friends, and coworkers.

When she is supported everyone in her life feels the impact.

Photography in itself is a time stamp. It gives us the ability to mark a moment that you may look back upon with wonder, excitement, and transformation.

This project to photograph 100 women is to give them that experience of being seen for who they are right now- not who they used to be or who they will become but for all that they are right now!

The mission of this project is twofold, give moms a change to give back to themselves with self care and connection while also support future moms do the same for themselves.

And the bonus we also are support our own woman owned business here in Western New York.

When mothers are supported, they are
more likely to be engaged in their communities, volunteer, and contribute to local economies
(UNICEF)

Moms who prioritize self-care
experience 40% lower rates of anxiety and depression, leading to better overall health (National Institute of Mental Health)

Kids with moms who practice self-care are
more emotionally secure and resilient
because they model self-worth and emotional regulation (Harvard Center on the Developing Child)

Pick Your Date & Location

May 3rd

Saira Studios

Step inside a working artist studio located at the Niagara Food Terminal. Saira will dazzle you up with fairy hair right before you jump in front of our lens.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Location: Saira Studios

Time: 2:00-4:00

Cost: $150

May 4th

Golden Days Studio

Enjoy a 45 minute meditation inside the beautiful Golden Days Space followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Location: Golden Days Studio

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 5th

April Spencer Floral Design

April has arranged a beautiful floral design set for us to create the most unique images. Each photo session will take place every 15 minutes with Jill from Bare By Barrile. Each mom will also receive a small bouquet to take home with them to remember this special occasion.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Address: April Spencer Floral Design

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 25th

Soul Healing Center

Enjoy a 15 minute Reiki Session with Lana at Soul Healing Center followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the western New York area!

Location: Soul Healing Center

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 26th

Bare By Barrile Studio

15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile right inside her Larkinville studio! Here, you will be able to Bare it all during your portraits session!

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Loaction: 567 Exchnage Street, Buffalo NY 14210

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 31st

the Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa

Enjoy a 15 minute massage to relax and rejuvenate, followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Address: The Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa

Time: 10:00-12:00

Cost: $150

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If It’s Not a Full-Body Yes, It’s a No: Why Desire-Led Business Is the Future

June 12, 20253 min read

If It’s Not a Full-Body Yes, It’s a No: Why Desire-Led Business Is the Future

What if your business felt like a lover—attuned, thrilling, and always leaving you wanting more?

We’ve been taught that business success comes from strategy, structure, and a never-ending to-do list. But if you’re a woman who leads with depth, intuition, and embodiment, there’s another way forward—one rooted in desire, pleasure, and self-trust.

This isn’t about abandoning strategy. It’s about starting from the body.

Welcome to Desire-Led Business—where everything begins with turn-on.

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The Trap of Hustle and “Should”

How many times have you created an offer because you thought you should?
Launched a program because it was “strategically smart”?
Showed up online… but felt disconnected from your own magic?

You’re not alone. The masculine model of business teaches us to ignore our inner wisdom. To push through, perform, and prove our worth through overwork. But what if the real power comes from doing less—and feeling more?

The truth is: sustainable, magnetic, joy-filled business begins with your desire, with your aliveness, with your pleasure.

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Pleasure Is a Business Strategy

Let’s say it again: Pleasure is not a reward for hard work. It’s the fuel for your work.

When you build your business around what feels good in your body… That’s when things begin to flow.
When you create offers that light you up from the inside out… That’s when your clients can
feel you.
When your marketing feels like foreplay, not performance... That’s when your business becomes
magnetic.

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What Is Desire-Led Business?

Desire-led business is the art of creating from turn-on, not to-do lists. It’s a radical act of embodied leadership and self-trust.

You ask yourself again and again:
💋 What do I
really want to create?
💋 What’s turning me on right now?
💋 What would feel delicious to bring into the world?

Desire-led business isn’t about trends or algorithms. It’s about listening to your body instead of just your brain, and leading from your truth—not someone else’s blueprint.

And your people? They’ll feel the shift. Your content will land differently. Your offers will resonate more deeply.Because when you’re turned on by what you’re doing… everything becomes more alive.

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Inside the Intimacy of Business Immersion

This is exactly what we explore during Week One of the Intimacy of Business Immersion—a live 4-week experience for women ready to lead with turn-on.

🔥 Reconnect with your desires—inside and outside the bedroom
🔥 Explore how intimacy, emotion, and pleasure shape your brand
🔥 Give yourself permission to run your business in a way that feels ecstatic (not just looks good)

This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about doing less with more presence, power, and pleasure.

We start by dismantling the “should” and reconnecting you to what’s true for you.

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A Question for You

If your business were your lover, how would it feel?

💔 Wrung dry, ignored, and craving space?
💋 Or nurtured, flirted with, and begging for more?

It’s time to change how we build, lead, and receive because when your business is built from the inside out, when it's dripping with your unique essence and rooted in deep truth, that’s when it becomes irresistible.

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Ready to Lead With Pleasure, Not Pressure?

Step into 1:1 Intimacy Coaching—a soulful, sensual journey where embodiment, emotional connection, and self-trust take center stage.

Whether you’re reconnecting with yourself, healing old patterns, or deepening intimacy in your relationships, this space is for you. You'll be guided to:
✨ Rewire your relationship with love, desire, and expression
✨ Lead with your body’s truth—not shame or obligation
✨ Explore what it feels like to be fully seen, held, and turned on by your life

👉 Ready to explore what’s possible when you come home to yourself? Let’s connect.

Click here to schedule your free Discovery Call—your journey begins the moment you say yes to you.






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Jill Barrile

Buffalo Ny based photographer and intimacy coach

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