The Story
The 100 Moms Project was born from a heartfelt conversation between Jill, a Boudoir Photographer and Relationship Coach and Courtney, an Esthetician at Natura Skin Boutique. As they caught up over coffee, they reflected on a shared truth—too many moms pour endlessly into others while neglecting themselves.
As mothers who work in the self love space, Jill and Courtney, know firsthand that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. So many moms put themselves last, whether by default or circumstance, without understanding the compounded weight of responsibility, the power of self-investment and the belonging and community it can bring as a byproduct . A mom who feels supported, cared for, and empowered shows up differently in her life. She cultivates a growth mindset, radiates confidence, and elevates those around her. That realization sparked a bigger vision—to create something tangible for the women of Western New York.
The 100 Moms Project is the first step toward that mission. This initiative will help fund To the Roots, a nonprofit dedicated to providing self-care services and luxury experiences to moms who need them most. Because when moms thrive, families and communities do too. Join us in making self-love accessible to every mom.
Why This Project Matters
When we support the mother's in our community, we aren't just supporting her, but every person that woman touches. Her children, her partner, her friends, and coworkers.
When she is supported everyone in her life feels the impact.
Photography in itself is a time stamp. It gives us the ability to mark a moment that you may look back upon with wonder, excitement, and transformation.
This project to photograph 100 women is to give them that experience of being seen for who they are right now- not who they used to be or who they will become but for all that they are right now!
The mission of this project is twofold, give moms a change to give back to themselves with self care and connection while also support future moms do the same for themselves.
And the bonus we also are support our own woman owned business here in Western New York.
When mothers are supported, they are
more likely to be engaged in their communities, volunteer, and contribute to local economies
(UNICEF)
Moms who prioritize self-care
experience 40% lower rates of anxiety and depression, leading to better overall health (National Institute of Mental Health)
Kids with moms who practice self-care are
more emotionally secure and resilient
because they model self-worth and emotional regulation (Harvard Center on the Developing Child)
Pick Your Date & Location
May 3rd
Saira Studios
Step inside a working artist studio located at the Niagara Food Terminal. Saira will dazzle you up with fairy hair right before you jump in front of our lens.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Saira Studios
Time: 2:00-4:00
Cost: $150
May 4th
Golden Days Studio
Enjoy a 45 minute meditation inside the beautiful Golden Days Space followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Location: Golden Days Studio
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 5th
April Spencer Floral Design
April has arranged a beautiful floral design set for us to create the most unique images. Each photo session will take place every 15 minutes with Jill from Bare By Barrile. Each mom will also receive a small bouquet to take home with them to remember this special occasion.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: April Spencer Floral Design
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 25th
Soul Healing Center
Enjoy a 15 minute Reiki Session with Lana at Soul Healing Center followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the western New York area!
Location: Soul Healing Center
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 26th
Bare By Barrile Studio
15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile right inside her Larkinville studio! Here, you will be able to Bare it all during your portraits session!
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Loaction: 567 Exchnage Street, Buffalo NY 14210
Time: 10:00-1:00
Cost: $150
May 31st
the Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Enjoy a 15 minute massage to relax and rejuvenate, followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.
A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!
Address: The Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa
Time: 10:00-12:00
Cost: $150
9 Reasons You Might Be Experiencing Low Sexual Desire (And What You Can Do About It)
9 Reasons You Might Be Experiencing Low Sexual Desire (And What You Can Do About It)
Sexual desire is a deeply personal, ever-evolving part of our lives—and at Bare by Barrile, we believe every body deserves to feel pleasure, connection, and confidence. If your libido feels low right now, know that you’re not broken. There are many reasons this might be happening—and many gentle, empowering ways to come back to yourself.
In this guide, we explore 9 of the most common reasons behind low sexual desire and offer supportive solutions you can begin today.
1. Resentment and Unresolved Conflict
Unspoken tension and lingering resentment can create emotional distance and block intimacy.
What Helps:
Prioritize open, honest communication
Create space for “repair” conversations
Seek couples therapy if needed
💡 Pro Tip: Emotional intimacy is often the foundation of physical desire.
2. Changes in Attraction or Relationship Dynamics
Attraction isn’t just physical—emotional and situational shifts in your relationship can impact desire.
Try This:
Reflect on what kinds of connection are meaningful to you
Explore non-sexual ways to bond (adventures, shared goals, deeper talks)
Communicate your needs and boundaries
3. Your Core Desires Aren’t Being Met
If sex doesn’t feel mentally, emotionally, or physically fulfilling, desire can fade.
What You Can Do:
Get curious about what turns you on (fantasies, preferences, sensations)
Communicate clearly with your partner
Experiment with new ways to connect intimately
👉 At Bare by Barrile, our luxury boudoir sessions are one way to reconnect with your inner desires—without judgment.
4. Chronic Stress and Burnout
Stress is a top libido killer. When you’re overwhelmed, your nervous system prioritizes survival—not sensuality.
Suggestions:
Schedule downtime, not just date nights
Practice mindfulness or relaxation techniques
Remind yourself: You’re worthy of rest and pleasure
5. Negative Body Image
Struggling to feel confident in your skin? You're not alone. Shame and self-criticism can deeply impact libido.
Ways to Shift That Energy:
Practice body-neutral or body-positive affirmations
Engage in self-touch or sensual rituals
Reclaim your image through an empowering boudoir photoshoot experience
✨ Our clients often tell us their session was the spark they needed to fall back in love with their body.
6. Pain During Sex
If intimacy causes physical pain, it’s natural to avoid it. This can affect desire, confidence, and emotional closeness.
What Helps:
See a pelvic floor therapist or sexual health provider
Expand your definition of sex—focus on pleasure, not performance
Keep communication open about what feels good and what doesn’t
7. Past Trauma or Sexual Abuse
Trauma can affect how safe and present we feel during intimate moments. It may show up as disconnection, avoidance, or fear.
Gentle Healing Tips:
Explore somatic therapy or trauma-informed support
Use grounding techniques during intimacy
Set and voice boundaries that support safety and trust
8. Hormonal Shifts (Menopause, Birth Control, etc.)
Your hormones may be shifting—but that doesn’t mean you’ve lost your sexuality.
What to Do:
Engage in “mental foreplay” (fantasies, erotic literature, daydreaming)
Embrace slower, more intentional pleasure practices
Talk to a specialist if needed
9. Pregnancy, Postpartum, or Fertility Stress
Whether you’re trying to conceive, currently pregnant, or postpartum—your body and mind are undergoing huge changes.
Ways to Support Yourself:
Be compassionate with your timeline
Communicate evolving needs with your partner
Explore intimacy in gentle, non-demanding ways
Final Thoughts: Desire Can Return—With Compassion and Curiosity
Low libido doesn’t mean something’s wrong—it means something in your life needs attention, love, and support. Whether it’s your stress levels, self-image, or emotional intimacy, you can rediscover pleasure in your body.
🌿 At Bare by Barrile, we help women and couples reconnect with their sensuality, confidence, and worth through luxurious, healing boudoir photography. You don’t have to wait until you “fix” your body or life—your journey to pleasure starts now.
Ready to reconnect with your sensual self?
Book your luxury boudoir experience or Intimacy coaching today and rediscover what it feels like to be seen, celebrated, and desired.
Click here to book a discovery call today!
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