The Story

The 100 Moms Project was born from a heartfelt conversation between Jill, a Boudoir Photographer and Relationship Coach and Courtney, an Esthetician at Natura Skin Boutique. As they caught up over coffee, they reflected on a shared truth—too many moms pour endlessly into others while neglecting themselves.

As mothers who work in the self love space, Jill and Courtney, know firsthand that self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. So many moms put themselves last, whether by default or circumstance, without understanding the compounded weight of responsibility, the power of self-investment and the belonging and community it can bring as a byproduct . A mom who feels supported, cared for, and empowered shows up differently in her life. She cultivates a growth mindset, radiates confidence, and elevates those around her. That realization sparked a bigger vision—to create something tangible for the women of Western New York.

The 100 Moms Project is the first step toward that mission. This initiative will help fund To the Roots, a nonprofit dedicated to providing self-care services and luxury experiences to moms who need them most. Because when moms thrive, families and communities do too. Join us in making self-love accessible to every mom.

Why This Project Matters

When we support the mother's in our community, we aren't just supporting her, but every person that woman touches. Her children, her partner, her friends, and coworkers.

When she is supported everyone in her life feels the impact.

Photography in itself is a time stamp. It gives us the ability to mark a moment that you may look back upon with wonder, excitement, and transformation.

This project to photograph 100 women is to give them that experience of being seen for who they are right now- not who they used to be or who they will become but for all that they are right now!

The mission of this project is twofold, give moms a change to give back to themselves with self care and connection while also support future moms do the same for themselves.

And the bonus we also are support our own woman owned business here in Western New York.

When mothers are supported, they are
more likely to be engaged in their communities, volunteer, and contribute to local economies
(UNICEF)

Moms who prioritize self-care
experience 40% lower rates of anxiety and depression, leading to better overall health (National Institute of Mental Health)

Kids with moms who practice self-care are
more emotionally secure and resilient
because they model self-worth and emotional regulation (Harvard Center on the Developing Child)

Pick Your Date & Location

May 3rd

Saira Studios

Step inside a working artist studio located at the Niagara Food Terminal. Saira will dazzle you up with fairy hair right before you jump in front of our lens.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Location: Saira Studios

Time: 2:00-4:00

Cost: $150

May 4th

Golden Days Studio

Enjoy a 45 minute meditation inside the beautiful Golden Days Space followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Location: Golden Days Studio

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 5th

April Spencer Floral Design

April has arranged a beautiful floral design set for us to create the most unique images. Each photo session will take place every 15 minutes with Jill from Bare By Barrile. Each mom will also receive a small bouquet to take home with them to remember this special occasion.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Address: April Spencer Floral Design

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 25th

Soul Healing Center

Enjoy a 15 minute Reiki Session with Lana at Soul Healing Center followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the western New York area!

Location: Soul Healing Center

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 26th

Bare By Barrile Studio

15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile right inside her Larkinville studio! Here, you will be able to Bare it all during your portraits session!

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Loaction: 567 Exchnage Street, Buffalo NY 14210

Time: 10:00-1:00

Cost: $150

May 31st

the Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa

Enjoy a 15 minute massage to relax and rejuvenate, followed by a 15 minute photo session with Jill from Bare By Barrile.

A portion of the the fee will be used to fund our newest project, To The Roots, whose mission is to provide self care services to mom's across the Western New York area!

Address: The Bodhi Tree Holistic Spa

Time: 10:00-12:00

Cost: $150

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The Shower Set: The Steamiest Boudoir Add-On You’ll Ever Try

November 20, 20252 min read
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If you’ve ever looked at a moody, cinematic photo and thought, “I wish that was me…” — this one’s for you.

There’s something magnetic about water.
The way it glistens across your skin and pop all the highlights on your chest and bum..

That’s the energy of The Shower Set, our most requested boudoir photography add-on here at Bare By Barrile in Buffalo, NY.


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What Is the Shower/Wet Set?

Our Shower Set (also called the Wet Set) is one of the most popular ways to turn up the heat during your boudoir experience.

This special add-on brings the element of water into your photo session — blending moody lighting, texture, and emotion to create breathtaking, sensual images.

Imagine warm water cascading over your skin as you hit every empowering pose that I guide you into.

This isn’t just another boudoir photo; it’s a cinematic experience that captures your wild, liberated essence.


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Why Clients Love It

✨ It’s wildly freeing.
There’s something deeply empowering about letting go of control and letting yourself feel. The water helps you connect to your body in a completely new way — fluid, untamed, and real.

🔥 It’s sensual and artistic.
The Shower Set isn’t just sexy — it’s art. The way the water glows against your skin, the movement, the emotion — it’s pure expression.

💫 It’s unforgettable.
This set delivers that magazine-worthy, music-video energy that makes you feel unstoppable. Think Nelly’s too hot in Here meets the iconic scene from Flash Dance.


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What to Expect

Every session starts the same way — with care, connection, and intention.
You’ll enjoy full hair and makeup styling, wardrobe access, and gentle guidance to help you feel confident and relaxed in front of the camera.

Once we’ve captured your bedroom and couch images - we’ll transition and end with our Shower Set.

The water is warm, the lighting is soft and moody, and the atmosphere is completely private. I’ll guide you every step of the way — from posing to movement — so all you have to do is breathe, feel, and let go.


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How to Add It to Your Boudoir Experience

The Shower/Wet Set can be added to any of our full boudoir experiences.
Because of the setup and prep involved, availability is limited each month — and spots fill quickly.

If you’ve been craving something that feels raw, sensual, and completely freeing…
this is your sign to say yes.

💦 Ready to get wet?
Click here to inquire or send a message to add the Shower Set to your next boudoir session.


Bare by Barrile is a Buffalo boudoir photography studio specializing in intimate, artistic sessions that help you reconnect to your sensuality, confidence, and self-expression.
Whether it’s your first time in front of the camera or your fifth, every experience is designed to help you fall deeply in love with yourself — one frame at a time.


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Jill Barrile

Buffalo Ny based photographer and intimacy coach

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