Events with Bare By Barrile

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We love creating events that bring our clients together for connection, community, transformation, and healing. Our gatherings are more than just photoshoots—they’re a space to celebrate self-expression, explore creativity, and build lasting friendships. When we come together, something truly magical unfolds, offering each person the chance to grow, be seen, and feel empowered. Join us at our next event and experience the joy of connecting with an incredible community that celebrates you just as you are.

Upcoming Events

7th FEB

Girl's Night Out: Healthy Happy Hour

South Towns Salt Cave: 140 Pine Street, Hamburg, NY, United States, New York

Time: 5:00-9:00

Cost: $35-$60

8th-9th

FEB

FEMINTINES DAY at
The Bird's Nest Circus Arts

Time: 5:00-9:00

Cost: $55-$160

13th FEB

Galentine's Day: Sensual Dance & Posing

Location: Bare By Barrile Studio

Time: 6:00-8:30

Cost: $45.00 Early Bird | $55 Day Of

19th

FEB

Women's Circle

Bare By Barrile Studio

Bare By Barrile Studio, 567 Exchange Street, Suite 202

Time: 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Cost: $22

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If It’s Not a Full-Body Yes, It’s a No: Why Desire-Led Business Is the Future

June 12, 20253 min read

If It’s Not a Full-Body Yes, It’s a No: Why Desire-Led Business Is the Future

What if your business felt like a lover—attuned, thrilling, and always leaving you wanting more?

We’ve been taught that business success comes from strategy, structure, and a never-ending to-do list. But if you’re a woman who leads with depth, intuition, and embodiment, there’s another way forward—one rooted in desire, pleasure, and self-trust.

This isn’t about abandoning strategy. It’s about starting from the body.

Welcome to Desire-Led Business—where everything begins with turn-on.

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The Trap of Hustle and “Should”

How many times have you created an offer because you thought you should?
Launched a program because it was “strategically smart”?
Showed up online… but felt disconnected from your own magic?

You’re not alone. The masculine model of business teaches us to ignore our inner wisdom. To push through, perform, and prove our worth through overwork. But what if the real power comes from doing less—and feeling more?

The truth is: sustainable, magnetic, joy-filled business begins with your desire, with your aliveness, with your pleasure.

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Pleasure Is a Business Strategy

Let’s say it again: Pleasure is not a reward for hard work. It’s the fuel for your work.

When you build your business around what feels good in your body… That’s when things begin to flow.
When you create offers that light you up from the inside out… That’s when your clients can
feel you.
When your marketing feels like foreplay, not performance... That’s when your business becomes
magnetic.

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What Is Desire-Led Business?

Desire-led business is the art of creating from turn-on, not to-do lists. It’s a radical act of embodied leadership and self-trust.

You ask yourself again and again:
💋 What do I
really want to create?
💋 What’s turning me on right now?
💋 What would feel delicious to bring into the world?

Desire-led business isn’t about trends or algorithms. It’s about listening to your body instead of just your brain, and leading from your truth—not someone else’s blueprint.

And your people? They’ll feel the shift. Your content will land differently. Your offers will resonate more deeply.Because when you’re turned on by what you’re doing… everything becomes more alive.

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Inside the Intimacy of Business Immersion

This is exactly what we explore during Week One of the Intimacy of Business Immersion—a live 4-week experience for women ready to lead with turn-on.

🔥 Reconnect with your desires—inside and outside the bedroom
🔥 Explore how intimacy, emotion, and pleasure shape your brand
🔥 Give yourself permission to run your business in a way that feels ecstatic (not just looks good)

This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about doing less with more presence, power, and pleasure.

We start by dismantling the “should” and reconnecting you to what’s true for you.

boudoir, photography, coaching, intimacy

A Question for You

If your business were your lover, how would it feel?

💔 Wrung dry, ignored, and craving space?
💋 Or nurtured, flirted with, and begging for more?

It’s time to change how we build, lead, and receive because when your business is built from the inside out, when it's dripping with your unique essence and rooted in deep truth, that’s when it becomes irresistible.

boudoir, photography, coaching, intimacy

Ready to Lead With Pleasure, Not Pressure?

Step into 1:1 Intimacy Coaching—a soulful, sensual journey where embodiment, emotional connection, and self-trust take center stage.

Whether you’re reconnecting with yourself, healing old patterns, or deepening intimacy in your relationships, this space is for you. You'll be guided to:
✨ Rewire your relationship with love, desire, and expression
✨ Lead with your body’s truth—not shame or obligation
✨ Explore what it feels like to be fully seen, held, and turned on by your life

👉 Ready to explore what’s possible when you come home to yourself? Let’s connect.

Click here to schedule your free Discovery Call—your journey begins the moment you say yes to you.






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Jill Barrile

Buffalo Ny based photographer and intimacy coach

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