Events with Bare By Barrile

When We Come Together

Magic Happens

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We love creating events that bring our clients together for connection, community, transformation, and healing. Our gatherings are more than just photoshoots—they’re a space to celebrate self-expression, explore creativity, and build lasting friendships. When we come together, something truly magical unfolds, offering each person the chance to grow, be seen, and feel empowered. Join us at our next event and experience the joy of connecting with an incredible community that celebrates you just as you are.

Upcoming Events

7th FEB

Girl's Night Out: Healthy Happy Hour

South Towns Salt Cave: 140 Pine Street, Hamburg, NY, United States, New York

Time: 5:00-9:00

Cost: $35-$60

8th-9th

FEB

FEMINTINES DAY at
The Bird's Nest Circus Arts

Time: 5:00-9:00

Cost: $55-$160

13th FEB

Galentine's Day: Sensual Dance & Posing

Location: Bare By Barrile Studio

Time: 6:00-8:30

Cost: $45.00 Early Bird | $55 Day Of

19th

FEB

Women's Circle

Bare By Barrile Studio

Bare By Barrile Studio, 567 Exchange Street, Suite 202

Time: 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Cost: $22

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The Art of Being Seen: Why Boudoir Is More Than “Sexy Photos”

September 23, 20252 min read

The Art of Being Seen: Why Boudoir Is More Than “Sexy Photos”

When people hear the word boudoir, most imagine lace, stilettos, and sultry glances at the camera. And while yes, lingerie and sensuality can absolutely be part of it, that’s not the whole story. At Bare By Barrile, boudoir is less about looking sexy and more about being seen.

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More Than Lingerie

Sexy photos are beautiful, but boudoir is not confined to them. Some clients show up in flowing dresses, oversized sweaters, or even with nothing at all. Others choose to bring objects that represent their stories—an heirloom necklace, a journal, or a guitar. What makes the session powerful is not the outfit, but the authenticity of how you show up.

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Reclaiming the Body Story

We all carry a narrative about our bodies—shaped by culture, relationships, or personal history. Some narratives are heavy: shame, self-criticism, or feeling “too much” or “not enough.” Boudoir offers an opportunity to rewrite that story. Each click of the camera says: This is me. I am enough. I am worthy of being seen.

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Healing Through Exposure

For many, the act of being photographed vulnerably is healing in itself. It’s not just about the final images—it’s about the embodied experience of showing up, being witnessed, and being held with reverence. Clients often describe the experience as cathartic, like shedding an old skin they no longer needed.

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The Photographer as Witness

Boudoir is a collaboration. The photographer doesn’t just take your picture—they witness you. They hold your expression, your laugh, your softness, your strength. In that witnessing, something alchemical happens: you realize that being seen doesn’t have to equal being judged. It can equal being celebrated.

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Beyond the Photos

The images you take home are reminders, yes—but the bigger gift is how you feel afterward. Many clients say they walk differently. They stand taller. They allow themselves to be seen in daily life, not just in the studio. Boudoir becomes the starting point for a deeper journey of self-expression and self-love.

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 If you’re ready to experience the art of being seen, book your boudoir session with Bare By Barrile—and step into your own power, unapologetically.

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Jill Barrile

Buffalo Ny based photographer and intimacy coach

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567 Exchange St, Buffalo, NY 14210, USA